*Note: This post may be a bit overly sarcastic and a tad bit exaggerated. At the end, I have topped it with a sprinkle of cheese. You have been warned. ;)
No one tells you that buying a house is like unwrapping a gift.
On the surface, it is a surprise, but you may be very disappointed with what lies beneath. As you are given the gift, your anticipation builds for what the present is going to be. When you buy a house, you "know" what the present is, but, well, you really have no clue. You proceed, blindly, to unwrap the true gift, knowing that nothing can be "that bad" and that things will all work out. After all, it is your house, and really that is all that matters. Ha! Oh you sad, sad soul.
As you live in your house you start to realize things. First it's the banging noise that the old hot water tank makes every time you shower. Unphased and still completely in love, you move on. That can be fixed right? Ha!
Then your realize that you live on a really busy road. You were all excited because you thought that "being on the road where the local school bus garage and town garages' are, our road will constantly be plowed during those lake effect snow days!" But then you realize that this just means when you have your front door open in the summer that there is a lot of noise and that you will be digging out the end of your driveway 100 times a day during the winter. But, yet again, your still unphased--it's good for the arm muscles right?
Again, other things strike you. You walk into someone else's beautiful home and your home's flaws become very apparent. You never realized that flat walls were such a luxury and that double pane windows were to be held in great esteem. You see carpeted floors or stained smooth wood and realize that those floors look clean all the time, unlike your sub floors that your hoping will pass off as hardwood ;) Yet again, you try to focus on the fact that it will all be nice, someday, soon...you're truly hoping.
The final strike is when you realize that it is going to take you years...yes, years to undo the years...yes, years of neglect in your yard. When the weeds are as tall as the bushes and the idea of a garden bed was SO last century, you just sort of say, "Whatever!!!"
As your just about ready to give up, you see a twinkle of hope and redemption and you realize that things are going to be ok! Your husband slowly works on that yard of yours and you can visualize what a flat wall will look like in your home. The windows start to be less bothersome only because you know that they, too, will soon be replaced with beautiful double pane ones.